Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Just Driving Along In My Car One Day

Was driving again yesterday and started to think about the movie Polterguist. Think that is how to spell it. So anyways.. I was remembering the part where the mom falls into the unfinished pool outside and the dead bodies start popping up and the coffins come up and the bodies come out and she screams.. DUH. Okay.. so here is my question... How come they didnt find the bodies when they were digging the hole for the pool? Also when you dig a grave you dig it 6 feet. Normally a deep end of a pool would be 9 feet. So dumb to me. I used to like that movie.. Now its just dumb.

Oh yea if you sleep on your back you will get less wrinkles. Your hair looks retarded when you wake up though. Worse than if you were to sleep on your side or stomach. It actually helps with your acne too. Or if you have bad acne try washing your pillow case once in a while. That helps too! ;)

My Make Up Brush

I was putting on some foundation type powder on my face and I noticed that the brush stinks. Seriously! It smells like "hat hair". Now my theory is this: the oils from my face go onto the brush when I use it and well I dont really think that I have to explain it. Yea, that is gross.. So I need to wash it or something. Gross.

I was out to dinner with my hunny the other night. There was a girl sitting next to us with her husband and his parents. I was listening to her talk and talk and talk. It made me think of how sad I feel for guys and how hard it must be for them when they find some one that talks too much... girls really are a pain in the ass and all of your females reading this know... its true.. ;) I am included. I know.. that is why I pitty them.

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However, I dont understand why men get angry when women want to get together with them when they have a lot of money. It seems like men always have to be the ones in charge and make more money. What are you teaching us boys? You make your bed, now you must sleep in it right? If you read your history of men and women you will know exactly what I am talking about.

(sigh) It is what it is.

Learning makes us taller....

I was listening to talk radio yesterday in the car and this man was being interviewed about his recent struggle with drugs and alcohol. He was explaining how he conquered his habits. As I was listening he said something that made absolute sense. He basically said when you are confronted with the type of person that is hard to get along with, or is always being negative in everything you or they do you have to remember that they speak to themselves that way also. So instead of putting yourself at their level remind yourself that you can be decisive and choose to go the opposite way. I smiled while listening to this man because I understood but I never thought of it like that before. What I mean to say is that when someone is really angry all the time I feel sorry for them because it's like being confined with no hope of escape. I know from experience. However I never thought of thinking to feel pity for them because ( a lot of the time I am busy feeling pity for myself but self absorption is a whole other blog) not only are they speaking to you in a derogative manner but that is how they speak to themselves as well. Misery loves company and they do not want to be alone. Remember that. :) Do not be angry with people, be compassionate. I am not asking you to be their friend but the more you understand things and others the more you begin to see that you become patient. This I am also speaking of from experience.
I have never paid attention before but I realize that when I am looking upon myself as being any thing less than what I think I should be I actually start to tell myself in my head that I am less. No one is telling me that I am, I am telling myself that I am. Therefore I begin to create a negative charge within and it reaches out to others in my mannerisms and my dialect. That makes perfect sense.
I think we all need to own up to our own as well because that is how experience makes you wise. Just being alive and getting old does not make you wise. I learned that to be a fable at an early age.
If you are reading this and in your head you are thinking, "I don't know Frankie their are those out there that I would rather just kick their ass then be patient with them" or if you take this next statement personally then I would think that maybe you yourself are negative and need to own up to that fact. I know I am sometimes and I think its making me old and might even be rotting me on the inside. I am doing and trying everything I can to avoid that. I have a theory on that also for those who are interested. I need to juggle it around in my brain before I put it on paper. Or should I say screen. :) Okay...

Where is our venus?

Where is our venus?
I was watching TV and there is a new show about women who are over the hill and they all want to be models. I thought it was pretty cool. We saw this skinny older woman and someone with me commented that she had a "smoking hot body." It made me think about the past. Back in the day women who were "thick" were considered attractive rather than skinnier women. I believe it could be due to the fact that if you were skinny that meant that you were starving and if you had weight than you had money. Then I decided that it's hard to be a woman! Actually I made up my mind a long time ago, but this just confirmed it all.
If you go way back, like to 15,000 BCE, they found a statue called the "Venus of Willendorf".




She is tubby! Of course those who are involved believe that it's a symbol for fertility, but still. She was worshipped for her womanly size! Look at her bo bos! She didn't wear a bra and she was still believed to be something worth looking at! ;) The archeologists who found her actually gave her the name of "venus". Regardless art tends to tell stories of the past and so it is probable. When we see art today with heavy women we say "ew gross." There was this woman artist who was pretty heavy and she smashed her body against some glass while naked. Not a lot of people appreciate it.
I just wanted to write down what I was thinking about. J Have a good day!
Gotta Go.